Top 7 Hairstyles Men Secretly Like on Women
There’s what men say they like… and then there’s the hairstyles they secretly double-take for but rarely admit. Whether it’s the confidence it gives off or the way it frames your face, these styles hit different — and they don’t always get the credit they deserve.Here are 7 styles men lowkey love (even if they don’t have the vocabulary to explain it).
1. Locs or Faux Locs
There’s something about locs that gives natural confidence and edge. It’s timeless but bold — like you’re not trying to be “done up” every second, and that makes it even better.
Men notice the energy of locs more than the effort.
2. High Ponytail
Not just any ponytail — the high, slick, no-nonsense one. It makes a statement. Pulls the face up, sharpens the look, and somehow makes everything look cleaner. It says, “I’m focused, but I’ll still look good doing whatever.”
3. Slick Low Ponytail
Sleek, controlled, and cold in the best way. A slick low ponytail gives “grown woman.” It’s the type of look that makes people wonder what you’re walking into — and why you look so confident doing it.
4. A-Line Bob
It’s giving structure. The sharpness of the cut draws attention, even if he can’t tell it’s an A-line bob.
It’s the kind of hairstyle that makes men assume you got something important to say. Bold, precise, and attractive without being loud.
5. High Messy Bun
The opposite of too-polished. It feels easy, chill, like you don’t need to try — but it still looks good. There’s something about the slightly effortless look that men like more than they admit. Bonus points when a few curls or strands fall out.
6. Curly (Natural or Defined)
Whether it’s your natural curl pattern or a defined twist-out, curls bring volume, texture, and personality. It doesn’t just look good — it feels alive. A lot of men are drawn to it because it looks both free and intentional at the same time.
7. Blunt Bangs
Men don’t talk about it… but they definitely notice it. Something about the mystery + softness combo works. It gives edge but still makes the eyes pop — like “sweet with a little bite.” Not everyone can pull them off, and that’s part of the appeal.
Final Word:
Most men can’t name these styles — but they remember how they made them feel. Whether you’re switching it up or just curious what’s catching eyes… these seven styles have more impact than you think.